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I Wasted 13 Years Hating Myself

I Wasted 13 Years Hating Myself

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For 21 years, I mistakenly believed I had low self-esteem, when in reality, I was abandoning myself for approval, belonging, and validation. The scariest part? I didn’t even realize it. This episode is for anyone who feels like they're doing everything right but still feels numb, stuck, or off. Discover how I reprogrammed my mindset, reclaimed my identity, and truly learned to love myself instead of just pretending.


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#self-hate, #self-esteem, #self-abandonment, #people-pleasing, #mindset shift, #self-love, #identity, #healing


Timeline

00:00:Self-hate isn’t always about looks

02:14:The hidden signs of self-abandonment

04:36:How people-pleasing hijacks your identity

06:45:Shame loops, disgust, and self-betrayal

08:21:Decoding your subconscious mind

10:30:What healing actually looks like

15:54:Recap