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The Day I Confessed: Overcoming Struggles with Shame, Food, and My Phone

The Day I Confessed: Overcoming Struggles with Shame, Food, and My Phone

I used to live in so much shame that I was afraid to admit my struggles out loud—not to friends, not even to God.


In this episode, I discuss why and how I faced my challenges and what it takes to fight back. Discover how I began to break free, the role of shame in keeping you stuck in cycles, and how to start rebuilding your self-respect.


Understand why willpower alone isn’t enough, how your environment impacts you, and the routines that anchored me. Learn about using micro-commitments to rebuild self-trust and the importance of accountability by sharing with others and God.

#shame, #self-respect, #micro-commitments, #accountability, #self-harm, #environment, #willpower


Timeline

00:00:Intro

02:09:Disclaimer

02:41:Rethinking what self-harm is

04:00:The day I finally confessed

06:05:Why willpower alone isn’t enough

07:30:Your environment can make or break you

10:12:The routines that anchored me

11:00:Using micro-commitments to rebuild self-trust

12:28:Accountability: telling people and telling God

14:06:Final thoughts & reflections